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Copying Bad Behavior

We field many questions from folks who read our blog, hear us on the radio, or see us on our weekly Parenting Like a Pro television segment. Here is a recent question from the concerned parent of a strong-willed child. … Continue reading

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Holidays and Hostile Teenagers

The holidays are here, and teenagers across our nation will be heading to family gatherings. Unfortunately, many will be wishing they were heading somewhere else. What are the answers for families facing the upcoming celebrations with a reluctant, strong-willed teenager? … Continue reading

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As Mom and Dad, You Can’t . . .

From an article in Parents magazine: Many parents believe that the “more time, energy, attention, and money they can devote to their children the better. In the final analysis, there are important things we can’t do.” Here are some of … Continue reading

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Fathers Teach Kids to Keep on Keeping On

Once again research has confirmed what the Bible has taught parents for centuries—loving discipline works. A new study in the Journal of Early Adolescence found that dads who are authoritative are in a unique position to instill persistence and hope … Continue reading

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The Great Debate

Strong-willed children love a good debate and are even willing to engage in a mediocre one. As the parent of a strong-willed child, you are probably already aware of this fact. The question is: Should you stop these conversations immediately … Continue reading

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Copying Bad Behavior

We are often asked: “If I have a great deal of difficulty getting my strong-willed child to follow the rules, will that affect my other children?” The short answer is “no” if the parent ultimately succeeds. If there is failure … Continue reading

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Equality in Discipline

Here’s a question we recently received: “We have two sons—three months and 20 months old. How do we discipline both children for the same offense: one laughs at a smack on the hand while the other one looks heartbroken when … Continue reading

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Delayed Gratification

In a recent article in the Wall Street Journal, Pamela Druckerman, author of the book, Bringing Up Bebe: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting,” asked the following question: “Could it be that teaching children how to delay … Continue reading

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Raising Young Risk-Takers

“Children who are encouraged to take reasonable, safe risks—with the guidance and support of their parents as they leave their comfort zone—tend to grow in confidence, are willing to make mistakes and use each failure as an education.” —Richard Asa … Continue reading

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Tough or Tender?

It is often assumed that the strong-willed child is as tough as nails and that he has no problem with being mistreated or ridiculed. This is an untrue assumption that often results from the strong opinions and in-your-face behavior of … Continue reading

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